Dating material vs marriage material

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You might be comfortable playing together at group parties.You might be fine with you or your partner having sex but not falling in love, or falling in love but not having sex.

Personally, I’ve always felt that being non-monogamous is as innate a part of me as being queer. I have some friends who were dirty cheaters before they found ethical poly, and some people who have been poly since they were teenagers.The great news is that opening a relationship means designing it the way you and your partner(s) want.You might not get everything your heart desires, but boundaries and self-discipline can feel surprisingly good, sometimes even better than getting everything you thought you wanted.You might think of monogamy as an off-the-rack garment, while polyamory is a bespoke suit that you design yourself!Since you customized this relationship, a transgression is just as (if not more) hurtful as it would be if you were monogamous.

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